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# Don't Take the Black Pill (Text Adaptation)

**[Lobsters](https://daily.dev/sources/lobsters)** · 25 min read · 0 upvotes · 0 comments

## Summary

A conference talk adapted into a blog post exploring the 'black pill' phenomenon — nihilistic despair — and how it manifests in software culture. The author argues that software quality is eroding not due to ignorance but due to non-technical forces prioritizing coercion over user agency. Examples of 'Coercionware' include dark patterns, bossware, algorithmic manipulation, and AI agents that serve companies rather than users. The author calls on software engineers to resist cynicism, support open source organizations, and maintain faith in humanity's capacity for good, framing the fight for ethical software as a collective responsibility.

## Full article

daily.dev links to this article rather than hosting it. Read it at the original source: <https://andrewkelley.me/post/dont-take-black-pill.html>

## Community take

How the wider developer community reacted, aggregated from 4 discussions and 18 comments across lobsters, hackernews (as of 2026-08-03).

**TL;DR:** The community largely resonates with the post's message of optimism and solidarity in tech, with several commenters expressing they personally needed the encouragement; a few minor critiques touch on personal asides in the piece and the difficulty of living out its ideals under current AI workplace pressures.

**Sentiment:** 60% positive · 30% mixed · 10% skeptical

**The case for**

- The reminder of the many allied open-source and freedom-focused organizations is seen as genuinely uplifting and grounding.
- The observation that software quality depended on engineers' will and their strong negotiating position resonated strongly with multiple commenters.
- The overall tone is described as refreshingly positive and Stallman-esque in its principled stance.

**The pushback**

- One commenter felt the personal religious upbringing anecdote was an unnecessary airing of grievances that may be unfair to the author's parents.
- The ideals expressed are hard to act on in practice when employers mandate AI use and career paths leave little room for opting out.
- The morality-without-religion section prompted a tangential debate about whether secular ethics can stand on their own.

**Hottest debate:** Whether a secular moral framework is sufficient or whether religion is needed as a fixed foundation for ethics.

**Open questions**

- How can individual engineers practically resist AI mandates when their jobs and career trajectories depend on adopting it?
- What concrete steps can the broader community take to make technology more accessible and empowering for everyone?

**Highlights**

> I really like this reminder at the end: > Next time you're feeling alone, count your allies: VideoLAN Organization, Blender Foundation, Software Freedom Conservancy, Electronic Frontier Foundation, Linux Foundation, Signal Foundation, KDE e.V., the PostgreSQL Community, the Debian Community, and so, so many more.
> — [hoistbypetard on lobsters · 3 points, 1 comments](https://lobste.rs/s/tqcwbi/don_t_take_black_pill_text_adaptation#c_vk6jux)

> Honestly a really refreshingly positive approach to the situation with computer science at the moment.  I needed to hear this. The one thing I struggle to find a way out of the ‘black pill’ approach toward is avoiding the use of AI (at work) where I don’t want to use it.  Were I in a position in my career where I could find or make an opening that didn’t mandate AI, I would.  But my job expects AI, is accelerating on its AI story, and all obvious career moves do (and are) too.   It really is difficult to feel anything other than pinned down by the weight of the current zeitgeist, even if one can cling to the hope that things will open back up again in future.
> — [ashikun on lobsters · 1 points](https://lobste.rs/s/tqcwbi/don_t_take_black_pill_text_adaptation#c_ngbw5i)

> > We are learning that software quality was maintained only through the will of software engineers combined with their accidentally strong negotiation position in the job market. Yeah.... yeah.
> — [ChiperSoft on hackernews](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49146620)

> > I was raised by conservative Christian parents I always wonder about statements like this. What do Andrew's parents feel when they're out seeing what their son's up to and see this kind of wound being aired. If only I'd been raised differently, I wouldn't have experienced the trials I did. I'm an older person who gets the chance to interact with quite a few young adults in their 20s, and I'm pretty confident that "conservative" upbringing is just one variant of "I wasn't prepared for the stage of adult mating/courtship". Everything else about the talk was fine with me. Somewhat Stallman-esque. Definitely agree with this sentiment: > We are learning that software quality was maintained only through the will of software engineers combined with their accidentally strong negotiation position in the job market. (disclaimer, I see myself as a progressive Christian, but who knows what labels others would attach to me, that's the thing about reductionist labels, you don't really get to choose them)
> — [travisgriggs on lobsters · 1 points](https://lobste.rs/s/tqcwbi/don_t_take_black_pill_text_adaptation#c_swpbaj)

**Source threads**

- [lobsters](https://lobste.rs/s/tqcwbi/don_t_take_black_pill_text_adaptation) · 68 points · 7 comments
- [hackernews](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49140662) · 18 points · 10 comments
- [hackernews](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49152654) · 10 points · 1 comments
- [hackernews](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49143754) · 3 points · 0 comments

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