--- title: I just published my first Medium article. It's about the... description: A developer shares their personal journey of landing their first dev job through a friend's referral and how the pressure to prove themselves worthy of that... canonical: https://daily.dev/posts/i-just-published-my-first-medium-article-it-s-about-the-invisible-pressure-of-getting-a-job-through-2j3q4zymr twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:site: @dailydotdev og:type: website og:site_name: daily.dev og:title: I just published my first Medium article. It's about the invisible pressure of getting a job through a friend's referral — and how that guilt turned me into a team lead. 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Link in bio. **[Kelvin Kwong](https://daily.dev/sources/xvypshj2bwbxqifouvouk)** · [@tszhim_tech](https://daily.dev/tszhim_tech) · 1 min read · 0 upvotes · 0 comments ## Summary A developer shares their personal journey of landing their first dev job through a friend's referral and how the pressure to prove themselves worthy of that recommendation drove them to excel and eventually become a team lead. The story explores the psychological weight of referral-based hiring and how it can be channeled into professional growth. ## Content [https://medium.com/@tszhim_tech/a-friend-got-me-my-first-dev-job-i-wasnt-going-to-be-the-reason-he-regretted-it-da8debe5e911](https://medium.com/@tszhim_tech/a-friend-got-me-my-first-dev-job-i-wasnt-going-to-be-the-reason-he-regretted-it-da8debe5e911) ## Similar posts on daily.dev - [Being kicked out of the tech industry](https://daily.dev/posts/being-kicked-out-of-the-tech-industry-nhyua14ty) · Lobsters · 1 upvotes · 0 comments --- Tags: [#career](https://daily.dev/tags/career), [#leadership](https://daily.dev/tags/leadership) [View this post on daily.dev](https://daily.dev/posts/i-just-published-my-first-medium-article-it-s-about-the-invisible-pressure-of-getting-a-job-through-2j3q4zymr) ```json {"@context":"https://schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https://daily.dev/#organization","name":"daily.dev","url":"https://daily.dev","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://daily.dev/apple-touch-icon.png","width":180,"height":180},"sameAs":["https://twitter.com/dailydotdev","https://github.com/dailydotdev","https://www.linkedin.com/company/daily-dev-ltd"]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https://daily.dev/#website","url":"https://daily.dev","name":"daily.dev","publisher":{"@id":"https://daily.dev/#organization"},"potentialAction":{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https://daily.dev/search?q={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}}]} {"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"DiscussionForumPosting","mainEntityOfPage":"https://daily.dev/posts/i-just-published-my-first-medium-article-it-s-about-the-invisible-pressure-of-getting-a-job-through-2j3q4zymr","headline":"I just published my first Medium article. 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