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# Never Argue With Your Boss

**[Hacker News](https://daily.dev/sources/hn)** · 4 min read · 1 upvotes · 0 comments

## Summary

A personal story about the career cost of publicly arguing with a manager. The author recounts how winning a technical debate in an all-hands meeting by humiliating his boss destroyed team trust and ultimately cost him his job. The key lesson: disagreements with management should be handled privately to preserve authority and relationships. 'Managing up' — making your boss look good and avoiding public confrontations — is framed as a critical professional skill.

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daily.dev links to this article rather than hosting it. Read it at the original source: <https://righteousit.com/2009/03/12/never-argue-with-your-boss>

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