--- title: Why is it so hard to passively stalk my friends' locations? description: A personal reflection on the lack of good tools for passively notifying friends when you're visiting their city. The author outlines two ideal scenarios —... canonical: https://daily.dev/posts/why-is-it-so-hard-to-passively-stalk-my-friends-locations--oz3po6rdi twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:site: @dailydotdev og:type: website og:site_name: daily.dev og:title: Why is it so hard to passively stalk my friends' locations? | daily.dev og:description: A personal reflection on the lack of good tools for passively notifying friends when you're visiting their city. The author outlines two ideal scenarios —... og:url: https://daily.dev/posts/why-is-it-so-hard-to-passively-stalk-my-friends-locations--oz3po6rdi og:image: https://api.daily.dev/og/posts/oz3PO6rDi.png og:image:alt: Why is it so hard to passively stalk my friends' locations? og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 630 og:locale: en --- > ## Documentation Index > Fetch the complete documentation index at: https://daily.dev/llms.txt > Use this file to discover all available pages before exploring further. # Why is it so hard to passively stalk my friends' locations? **[Terence Eden](https://daily.dev/sources/shkspr)** · 5 min read · 0 upvotes · 0 comments ## Summary A personal reflection on the lack of good tools for passively notifying friends when you're visiting their city. The author outlines two ideal scenarios — planned trip overlap detection and spontaneous proximity alerts — then explores why no good solution exists. Key obstacles include social awkwardness, privacy concerns, safety risks, and the absence of a decentralized, privacy-preserving implementation. Existing tools like Signal, WhatsApp, and FourSquare Swarm fall short. The author concludes by settling for manual social media posts and hoping something better emerges. ## Full article daily.dev links to this article rather than hosting it. 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